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Want to write some smut with me?

SugarButch Chronicles  4 days ago

This just in! Stop the presses! Last minute announcement of how to stalk me this week … As if I haven’t had enough events this week and last: I was in Northwest Illinois visiting the fine folks at the Students For Sex Against Sexism in Society club at Knox College doing my Fucking with Gender [.

Scarleteen: Help Lift Sex Ed to a Higher Plane

SugarButch Chronicles  4 days ago

I’ve written about the sex education network Scarleteen before, calling for support and donations to help keep this invaluable resource going strong.

Review: Buck

SugarButch Chronicles  Nov 14 09

Oh, Vixskin. (Sigh & swoon.) I often get questions about which cocks I recommend, and I always say Vixen Creation’s line of Vixskin material.

Review: The Big Cock

SugarButch Chronicles  Nov 12 09

I don’t know if this sucker has another name. I’ve just been calling it The Big Cock. Because, well:   You see, when you write about sex on the Internets, sometimes people send you things.

Fucking & Making Love

SugarButch Chronicles  Nov 11 09

She looked so damn hot yesterday. I don’t know what it was exactly. She was in an outfit I’ve seen, tight slim jeans, her girly black tank top with the silver star pattern, little yellow sweater with the clear buttons.

Radical Masculinity: How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting

SugarButch Chronicles  Nov 11 09

It’s up! My second Radical Masculinity column for Carnal Nation is titled How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting.

Truer: Sophia Wallace’s work in NYC

SugarButch Chronicles  Nov 11 09

Sophia Wallace, one of my favorite photographers, has a collection called Truer: An Autobiographical Love Story, which has been included in Slideluck Potshow XIV, a potluck and slideshow this Friday.

Fucking in Public in Liberator Lingerie

SugarButch Chronicles  Nov 09 09

Kristen and I dispute how many times we’ve been to the particular play party that we attended on Halloween.

Review: Seven Minutes in Heaven (DVD)

SugarButch Chronicles  Nov 02 09

On Friday, Kristen and I sat down to watch No Fauxxx’s latest DVD from Reel Queer Productions, Seven Minutes in Heaven: Coming Out.

Sometimes, I will never catch up …

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 30 09

Well hello! Hey look! I have an online-writing-project (aka blog)! It’s not like I’ve forgotten.

Review: Post Apocalyptic Cowgirls (DVD & Streaming)

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 30 09

You may have run into this little site I co-run with Hot Movies For Her called VOD.sugarbutch.net … it’s up there in the “Mr.

Bent Mentor Showcase in Seattle

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 26 09

If you live in Seattle, don’t miss the Mentor Showcase at Bent: A Writing Institute. I studied at Bent for almost six years, when I lived in Seattle and was going to college at the University of Washington getting degrees in both Creative Writing and Social Change.

Sugarbutch Star (smut) Chapbooks – $10

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 21 09

Buy a Sugarbutch Star Chapbook! I’ve reprinted the Sugarbutch Star chapbooks from 2007! I know, I know, the 2008 contest isn’t done yet (SBC fans who are familiar with the archives, or the most popular posts which are in the sidebar, will know exactly what I’m talking about.

My Evolving Masculinity, Part Three: “Daddy”

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 20 09

Part Three in a series of five. See also: Part One, Introduction and Part Two, Yin & Yang. Kristen has been calling me “Daddy” in bed lately.

Champion DVD Giveaway – Winner!

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 19 09

Thanks so much, everyone, for the bits of feedback in the Champion DVD giveaway. I have asked for feedback on the site, what you think or what you’d like to see more or less of, before, but I’ve never had this great of a response.

Sugarbutch Hits 1,000,000! Champion DVD Giveaway!

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 15 09

If you don’t know about the queer indy porn flick wrote my own review of Champion back in January 09 if you’d like to see how I enjoyed it.

Come Say Hello! My Fall ‘09 Events

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 15 09

I’ve been doing some housecleaning around Sugarbutch since I now have some serious time on my hands.

The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You by S. Bear Bergman

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 15 09

S. Bear Bergman has a new book out, The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You, which is a collection of personal essays, mostly on gender.

My Evolving Masculinity, Part Two: Yin & Yang

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 14 09

Part Two in a series of five. See also: Part One, Introduction Beyond the Concepts of Yin & Yang I was introduced to many new concepts at the 5-day tantra retreat I attended over the summer of 2009, but the one I’ve been constantly chewing on and talking about and sharing and using to analyze myself and [.

Review: Nipple Clamps 101

SugarButch Chronicles  Oct 14 09

A while back Kristen decided she’d like to try some different nipple clamps. I had one set, a very basic tweezer set, which she liked to wear but which slipped off fairly easily.