This just in! Stop the presses! Last minute announcement of how to stalk me this week …
As if I haven’t had enough events this week and last: I was in Northwest Illinois visiting the fine folks at the Students For Sex Against Sexism in Society club at Knox College doing my Fucking with Gender [.
I’ve written about the sex education network Scarleteen before, calling for support and donations to help keep this invaluable resource going strong.
Oh, Vixskin. (Sigh & swoon.)
I often get questions about which cocks I recommend, and I always say Vixen Creation’s line of Vixskin material.
I don’t know if this sucker has another name. I’ve just been calling it The Big Cock. Because, well:
You see, when you write about sex on the Internets, sometimes people send you things.
She looked so damn hot yesterday.
I don’t know what it was exactly. She was in an outfit I’ve seen, tight slim jeans, her girly black tank top with the silver star pattern, little yellow sweater with the clear buttons.
It’s up!
My second Radical Masculinity column for Carnal Nation is titled How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting.
Sophia Wallace, one of my favorite photographers, has a collection called Truer: An Autobiographical Love Story, which has been included in Slideluck Potshow XIV, a potluck and slideshow this Friday.
Kristen and I dispute how many times we’ve been to the particular play party that we attended on Halloween.
On Friday, Kristen and I sat down to watch No Fauxxx’s latest DVD from Reel Queer Productions, Seven Minutes in Heaven: Coming Out.
Well hello! Hey look! I have an online-writing-project (aka blog)!
It’s not like I’ve forgotten.
You may have run into this little site I co-run with Hot Movies For Her called VOD.sugarbutch.net … it’s up there in the “Mr.
If you live in Seattle, don’t miss the Mentor Showcase at Bent: A Writing Institute.
I studied at Bent for almost six years, when I lived in Seattle and was going to college at the University of Washington getting degrees in both Creative Writing and Social Change.
Buy a Sugarbutch Star Chapbook!
I’ve reprinted the Sugarbutch Star chapbooks from 2007! I know, I know, the 2008 contest isn’t done yet (SBC fans who are familiar with the archives, or the most popular posts which are in the sidebar, will know exactly what I’m talking about.
Part Three in a series of five. See also: Part One, Introduction and Part Two, Yin & Yang.
Kristen has been calling me “Daddy” in bed lately.
Thanks so much, everyone, for the bits of feedback in the Champion DVD giveaway. I have asked for feedback on the site, what you think or what you’d like to see more or less of, before, but I’ve never had this great of a response.
If you don’t know about the queer indy porn flick wrote my own review of Champion back in January 09 if you’d like to see how I enjoyed it.
I’ve been doing some housecleaning around Sugarbutch since I now have some serious time on my hands.
S. Bear Bergman has a new book out, The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You, which is a collection of personal essays, mostly on gender.
Part Two in a series of five. See also: Part One, Introduction
Beyond the Concepts of Yin & Yang
I was introduced to many new concepts at the 5-day tantra retreat I attended over the summer of 2009, but the one I’ve been constantly chewing on and talking about and sharing and using to analyze myself and [.
A while back Kristen decided she’d like to try some different nipple clamps. I had one set, a very basic tweezer set, which she liked to wear but which slipped off fairly easily.