It's been three years since I posted my first "Dear GB" email and started trying to give advice to readers who asked for it. Since then I've done over 100 of those posts! At this stage, I think it would be useful to try and categorise all the postings that I've done, so as to make it easier for people who're seeking advice to search through the archives.One popular category of email that I've posted relates to coming out. These emails are from guys who're not sure whether they're gay or not, or from guys who're having problems coming out: Coming out 20-Jul-09 Email from a bicurious student 26-May-09 Email from a closeted Asian gay guy 19-Apr-09 Email from a Londoner curious about gay sex 14-Oct-08 Email from a bi-curious guy in his 20's 12-Aug-08 Email from a bisexual guy in love with another guy 21-Jun-08 Email from a British guy who's ethnically Indian 13-Jun-08 Email from a guy who's confused by gay culture 14-Jan-08 How does a closeted 25 year old gay virgin build a social life 24-Nov-07 Email from a gay guy who's not out yet 22-Jul-07 Is there a medication to stop people being gay? 25-May-07 Email from a gay chinese guy who feels he can't come out 18-Mar-07 An email from a young reader who's not sure if he's gay The next category of email relates to guys who have come out, but who want advice dating or boyfriend hunting, or who just want to know how to meet other gay guys: Dating, boyfriend hunting, or just wanting to make gay friends 29-Oct-09 Email from a young gay banker in Asia 26-Sep-09 Email from a young gay banker 18-Sep-09 Message from a guy who hasn't had much luck online 1-Sep-09 The cop out 14-Aug-09 Email from a young guy in love with another guy 12-Jul-09 Email from a gay student in the UK 18-Jun-09 Email from a gay guy who wants to 'find himself' 3-May-09 Email from a guy who wants to lose his virginity 5-Apr-09 Email from a guy who wants a boyfriend 29-Mar-09 Email from a gay guy who moved to London 27-Jan-09 The rules of playing 'hard to get' 10-Nov-08 Email from a gay guy wanting dating advice 21-Sep-08 Email from a guy with a dating dilemma 15-Jul-08 Email from a guy who used to be in a difficult relationship 1-Apr-08 Another email from the gay guy with the dating issue 5-Mar-08 Email from a gay guy with a dating issue 31-Dec-07 Email from a gay teenager 29-Oct-07 How do I meet other gay professionals in Asia? 11-Oct-07 Email from a guy with a potential boyfriend situation 25-Aug-07 Email from a gay guy who wants a relationship 28-Jul-07 Email from a guy with an ex-boyfriend situation 16-Jul-07 Do all gay relationships start with sex? 31-May-07 Email from a young guy looking for a boyfriend 18-Apr-07 An email from a Southeast Asian student in Scotland 18-Dec-06 An e-mail from a student However, the biggest category concerns relationships themselves. Full story...
Recently, I met up with my friend P for a drink after work. I hadn't seen him since I went out for dinner with him and my female Mexican friend, so it was good to catch up with him.
Part of my original inspiration for becoming a blogger was the infamous blog Belle de Jour, the Diary of a London Call Girl.
When I read this BBC news article a couple of days ago, I burst out laughing. Although it's about straight sex, I still think it's worth posting here.
I was playing a quiz game with a few friends one evening last week, and the answer to one of the questions turns out to be the old James Bond film 'The man with the golden gun'.
Earlier this year, I'm chatting to a guy on gaydar, and I'm thinking about visiting him for some fun.
Towards the end of last month, I got the following email from one of my Asian readers:HiHave been a great fan of your blog from Hong Kong.
Last weekend, I'd originally planned to work on a posting for the one remaining advice request that's been waiting patiently in my "Dear GB" queue on this blog's right-hand side-bar since the end of last month.
One evening last week, I'm cuddling up on the sofa with boyfriend T watching some TV, when suddenly he asks me a question.
Just under 4 weeks ago, I got an email about the prejudices that straight guys can have about working with gay guys.
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